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    Teachers as Vehicles for Resilience

    Liesl Pinto, Kindergarten Teacher
    28th Sep 2022
    Chatsworth International School provides a nurturing and caring learning for students to learn and thrive

    If just one person in a child’s life is consistently supportive, a child is much more likely to overcome difficult circumstances...

    Just one person who is enthusiastic about the child...

    Just one person who lights up when the child walks into the room…

     

    Being a teacher and parent in an international school in Singapore has made me aware of a fascinating group of children: ‘Third Culture Kids’. Rameker (2006) defines such children as ones who spend a good part of their formative years living outside their country of origin, often moving frequently from country to country due to the relocation needs of their parents, presenting them with continuous adaptability challenges.

    Having been born and brought up exclusively in my home country, I often compare my formative years with my daughter’s current life. She, being a Third Culture Kid, has lived a considerably different life from my own culturally homogenous and perfectly uneventful childhood. However, the multicultural opportunities and experiences she has been privileged to have received in her nineteen years living in three different countries, excluding her country of origin, prompted me to study how I as a parent and teacher can play a part to help children build their power of resilience. What I have learnt is that while there are many positives about being a Third Culture Kid, there are several potential downsides as well.

    Coping with Challenges

    While children around the world are affected by stressful situations in various degrees through their school life, Third Culture Kids share very specific challenges. Now consider this ... a child walks into school on his first day no matter his age. He is fresh off the boat from a different country, has moved into a new home and is now surrounded by strangers in a new school who cannot speak his language. The dramatic changes in living location may have lead to a breakdown in his friendships and core groups at his home country, new feelings of isolation and he might even face elements of discrimination (Rameker, 2006). These changes often lead to a multitude of other emotional and social challenges, some more complex than others (Lyttle, Barker, & Cornwell, 2011).

    While many children I work with cope with these challenges, often quite beautifully, the emotional and social turmoil rarely goes away. However, being able to cope is a key factor for students to maintain positive mental health, successful school experiences and healthy relationships (Ivaki et al, 2021). It is not something that teachers or parents can control or decide. However, significant adults can play a vital role in helping children develop important attributes that enable them to be resilient, ensuring that their mental health and wellbeing is not left to chance.

    Research has shown that resilience makes a big difference in how children live (Rameker, 2006). Introducing strategies for coping with hardships can allow children to live healthier lives, have happier relationships, become more successful in school and be more positive and less depressed (Mesman, Vreeker & Hillegers, 2021). However, resilience isn’t something one is necessarily born with; it can be learned. This is where we, as teachers (and parents), come in. Strong teacher/parent-child relationships are vital to building resilience. Moreover, it is possible for teachers specifically, to develop resilience building strategies through a culture of mindfulness and tie them seamlessly into the school curriculum.

    Building Resilience in the Early Years

    Early years students gain a holistic education at Chatsworth International School

    Kindergarten age children are naturally drawn to their teachers because of the physical nature of their needs (Verschueren & Spilt, 2021). Little ones need to be aware that it’s ok to ask for help and that it is easily forthcoming. However, teaching children to wait and be patient, by gently putting off entertaining a child who wants immediate attention, is perhaps one of the most basic ways to build resilience and fuel independent problem solving skills (Mesman, Vreeker & Hillegers, 2021). Sharing classroom materials and activities, stressing the importance of turn taking and developing understandings of the importance of relationships, is integral for the little ones to get their first taste of resilience development. When teachers overtly model classroom essential agreements and attributes of the learner profile, it gives students ideas on how they can follow these and create new ways to replicate these as well. Empowering students to speak their mind if they are not happy with a situation or other children’s actions, often reduces emotional and social breakdowns. Also, rather than complaining, children need to be encouraged to look for positive points in their peers or life in general.

    Even children over the age of six, who are quite independent, still need adult reassurance (Baltazar & Hopkins, 2021). Their increasing interest in friends, social media, internet games and other activities, begins drawing them away from adults. Conducting and facilitating class meetings with attention to specific feelings, makes students aware of their emotions. These meetings can take place as the need arises, daily or simply reflect on the past week. They are healthy ways to connect students and create a safe place for them to discuss and repair negative emotions they may have towards each other or towards particular situations.

    Building Resilience across Primary and Secondary students

    Getting students involved in volunteering to make a collaborative contribution to their school or outside community, helps them to serve others, model generosity and creates positive action. However, volunteering isn’t something that comes naturally to children. Teachers can serve as advisors or mentors to such ideas (Baltazar & Hopkins, 2021). This could be as simple as helping each other to clean up the immediate environment, to feel a sense of worth and to understand that happiness and wellbeing can come from non-material things too.

    Secondary students at Chatsworth International School showcase their projects at the annual Science Fair

    Setting up opportunities for students to be ‘giving’ by inviting students from other classes to visit, to showcase an exhibition or a class task, is also an effective way to create better well-being between students. Encouraging students to step outside their comfort zone and play with children who speak another language or even trying new activities or foods is another way to widen children’s experiences, where students build, develop and practise coping strategies. It is important to keep reminding children that there is always a rainbow after any storm.

    By age eleven and twelve, children begin challenging ideas and authority and resilience to emotional challenges often falters (Rameker, 2006). It is at this stage that significant adults should be aware of the importance of reconnecting to the emotional needs of students. Helping students to set realistic academic goals, creating optimistic social resolutions, offering critical thinking tools to solve emotional issues, providing opportunities to be more assertive and encouraging children to persevere when challenges arise, are some of the important processes that foster resilience during the teenage years (Mesman, Vreeker & Hillegers, 2021). In turn, resilience could help boost student confidence and encourage support amongst students, making them happier, more empathetic and balanced individuals.

    While teachers cannot possibly control their students’ lives outside school, we can certainly try and make a difference in our students’ lives at school. By creating an environment that fosters and develops resiliency amongst our students, we can help them face and overcome challenges and get stronger because of them.

     

    References

    Baltazar, A. M., & Hopkins, G. (2021). Building Resilience in Children and Youth.

    Ivaki, P., Schulz, S., Jeitler, M., Kessler, C. S., Michalsen, A., Kandil, F. I., ... & Seifert, G. (2021). Effects of yoga and mindfulness practices on the autonomous nervous system in primary school children: A non-randomised controlled study. Complementary Therapies in Medicine, 61, 102771.

    Lyttle, A. D., Barker, G. G., & Cornwell, T. L. (2011). Adept through adaptation: Third culture individuals’ interpersonal sensitivity. International Journal of Intercultural Relations, 35(5), 686-694.

    Mesman, E., Vreeker, A., & Hillegers, M. (2021). Resilience and mental health in children and adolescents: an update of the recent literature and future directions. Current opinion in psychiatry, 34(6), 586.

    Rameker, V. C. Y. (2006). Resilience among third culture kids attending an international school (Doctoral dissertation, Durham University).

    Verschueren, K., & Spilt, J. L. (2021). Understanding the origins of child-teacher dependency: Mother-child attachment security and temperamental inhibition as antecedents. Attachment & Human Development, 23(5), 504-522.

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